The Art Of Winning.

Funny,might seem an exaggeration….anyway,we all love to win,don’t we?...most certainly,we do.it’s that great feeling of being superior than the rest that drives us..and once we get the taste of victory we wan’t to taste it again and again…lance Armstrong says “sportsperson are always busy bulding an aura of invincibility around themselves and hence they show a certain contempt towards others”….perfectly said I think…it doesn’t count….they always look to win…not only sportsperson I think,every common man has new battles everyday,challenges we take up willingly in things we love doing…in my case probably a good game of football,or an insignificant tennis match…it doesn’t matter ….the most important thing I think,is how we accept loss or defeat or disappointment….it has to come,or else we are disillusioned…it’s best to just take your lesson and forget the defeat…easier said than done cause the bumps on your goal to invincibility will come back,more often than not,to haunt you…the more we lose,the more we learn how to cope with disappointments and the better position we are in to win….winning mentality is a big thing but coping with losses,setbacks and getting back to what you do with added experience and vigour is even bigger….when we go into doing something,competing with peers in our daily lives we should just quit thinking about defeating the other person and concentrate on winning or even,better enjoying what we do….complete ignorance doesn’t help…I said in the beginning ‘things we love doing’….so enjoyment should come with it….the moment we stop enjoying it we simultaneously lose the vigour and passion for victory and hence stalling improvement in the process.

Now the question comes,as to how I am suddenly writing,well my unseen readers,I remember having mentioned in my previous posts that I was going to concentrate on debate this semester.i did,and I won it…rather,we won it…target achieved.I had a great team to work with….it came way bit too easy,but victory is always sweet….invincibility is a big word…college has matured me….it really has…be it a tennis match or a debate,I don’t exult after a victory now outwardly as I don’t contemplate with a hung head after a loss….at the end of the day winning matters,but the very next morning the world is just the same as it was before and your probability of success and failure unmistakably shifts to normal balance again…and we start over…to prove ourself again…..so turns out we crave for victory just for that couple of hours of exultation…wrong…..we crave for a win to prove ourselves….to others?...probably not,more to our own selves…unmistakably,we mature enough to realize that one day……and a bunch of faggots would poop on this hogwash anyway….what the heck….